From as far back as i can remember, i've always had a tiny lil voice in my head telling me that i was never good enough . No amount of grades at school or recognition at work or amongst friends could quell it. Well in a way it DID push me to work a lil harder but being the pessimistic guy i am , the battle with my inner critic is constant . Maybe its my Virgoan trait (yeah im a virgo ) where its said that we are our worst critic while others say that my standards are too high XD .However , whatever the reason , this annoying internal nagging has never quietened down despite all my efforts in coming to terms with it (yeah constant hammering with positive thoughts helps lots but it ain't enough too... ) So how do we (or I ) drive this diabolic voice that constantly degrades us as well as our morale ? a small solution i've come out with is to realise that this "lil" voice isn't YOU who is really speaking . In other words , change theeself to become more optimistic. Be CALM , ANALYZE yourself and KEEP A COOL HEAD ! . Other than this , talking / venting with friends will help lots too... surely there will be at least 1 friend , be it a male , female or pondan * ( omg sry for using this word... no offense to anyone kie ? ) who is willing to help you and listen to all your troubles .He /she / It may be just in front of you but you may not know who that He/she/It is...
At the end of this post , i reread it, and look at myself in confusion... am i writing a blog or am i writing a motivational article for someone? i seriously don't know...
Thursday, March 13, 2008
That lil lil voice in yr head...
Posted by Jackson at Thursday, March 13, 2008
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